Within relationships the lines between opinions, love and conviction can blurry the ideology which brought consenting adults together. The willingness to forgive increases the chance for fruitful relations.
Those who have departed this plain shall always be remembered. Let their departure be a remembrance that life is too short to take for granted.
Fear not! We must come to terms that we exist for a reason. And when we finally accept this truism, only then will life make sense.