Drusato here. I want to say good day to those who try their best to emphasis their thoughts despite agendas who mischaracterize the need to express. Kudos, Shout outs and nuff respect to you.

Question. When does a man thoroughly know himself? At what age does he feel he’s confident enough to take on the world, haters or not?

I remember a time where I felt unstable (yes unstable).  I remember a time when I would do anything to be in a relationship. I also recall a time I was so stubborn, completely arrogant nor had any means to stop masculinity that would rival herculean warriors. I remember those days well.

At an age somewhere in my 20’s, the need to find one’s self-manifested culminating with excessive reading ( no such thing right). The answers, at least so I thought were right at my fingertips on demand. Goodness was I wrong.

Now looking back,  I realize what I needed at the time wasn’t a relationship of sorts but something I’ve discussed in previous posts. Isolation. I frankly needed time to grow without the expectations or the so-called vicariously intended advice loosely hanging on the lips of loved ones.

I needed time to grow. Ladies this one’s for you. A man is coded by nature (God, a deity or take your pick) to perform certain biological acts. And whether you like it or not men have the be fruitful and multiple genes. Even though modern-day shaming tactics and most of all free will helps to curtail his actions, this sentiment can never be refuted. Sorry. It is what it is on THIS planet. But as much attention as a man’s sexual proclivities may understandably so, “contain”.

Quite really do we hear men detailing their fulfillment of purpose before any notion of family or remarkable success, which is relative anyway right?

Thus I will say this woman out there; realize a man has to fulfill his purpose. And if you attempt to stifle his desire for “more” resentment will be a raindrop which multiple every shining day he sees your face. A face of beauty yes and deplorable contempt.

Too much has been made regarding his biological needs” yet the attention should be geared towards his destiny. Men are designed to build, as such building will be the foundation of a burgeoning society. His purpose is to contribute, not only through the seed which produces the miracle of life but also through his efforts.

He needs space to come to grips with himself moreover so acknowledge confidently the groundwork for such contributions. Sex and procreation is his divine purpose coming half circle. He needs to full fill his effort through the imagination of his mind, thus coming full circle.

Please realize in doing so be rational of his misery. His incorrigible bad habits. Not to mention the described lack of attention he may not deliver in the most timely of fashions. Remember his moods indirectly and directly surround purpose. Very often this has nothing to do with you, but self-introspection conflicting communication (imagination) with his source (God, deity or energy) and fulfillment of a promise. A promise to contribute more than just sexual disbursement. He needs to find his promise and unhitch it’s great possibilities before a reckoning by father time solidify a deathly blow, “truly promising” eternal isolation.

Remember his isolation needs is as paramount as his biological sustenance.

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