Men go through lives struggling to find the very thing that makes a woman’s emotional strings sizzle. Through the passage of time, he is in a sense committed to a certain message. The message is:

How to deal with the woman or attract the type of woman he feels he deserves. And because they say adults are hard to change when they reach a certain age; what if the message has turned out to be an unjust combination of commercialism and what the powers that be actually desire? Yes, an unjust combination of commercialism. Men we are conditioned to buy, to seek expensive material items as a method to attract the opposite sex. In other words, through purchase, we lay the foundation or the “bait” and hope those efforts “spent” will be fruitful. And if not this time perhaps the next, yet when will we understand at the core there is more to a woman than material trappings. Don’t get me wrong “material” contributions is a given but there’s much more to it. So the question is:  Can he suddenly change and become a student to the game considering those overly dramatically images and messages he has unconsciously accepted over the years? Will he accept the truth with a feeling of resentment or betrayal? Perhaps. An understanding woman is a calculating, underlying excruciating pain to the novice. The game of understanding woman.

Let’ get into it!

One thing men must understand is that woman progress at a certain rate. This can’t be forced and if so chances are you will be the recipient of an unwelcome gift. A gift of realizing you’re either in the “friends” or the “ignored” corner. That’s right ignored corner, cast away to probability where you may see this person years later as you’ve hopefully matured and view women from a different lens, and therefore take heed to your new found knowledge.  A woman in a nutshell want something special called “attention” it’s that simple. Can you provide the necessary skill to offer attention in a variety of different ways?

Let’s face it! She has seen it, heard it and received all the trinkets so what in the world makes you different? I’ll tell. There’s a thing called confidence and perceived power. It’s that simple. Call it 1. A and 1.B. Power is the ability to see a woman and be fine with walking away. Power is encountering the majestic beauty of a woman, have an extraordinary conversation and without hesitation walk away without even the notion to ask for her number or a better place to meet and continue the acquisition of information (getting to know each other). Power in you and believe in your abilities signify, if the timing is right you will see this person again.  Confidence (or as the youngins’ call it “Swag) is advising the world through your intentions you are a sane contributor to society with love and an effective human being without.  So gents it’s not really about her but basically about you. If you must mask your desperation deploy confidence and power. And remember perception is always key on this planet. Remember you are the prize DAMN IT! Now act like it.

DruSato signing off.

P.S To be continued. This topic is too good to reserve for simply one post.

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