Being in a relationship demands many things and ask for sacrifices. But there is a fine line between sacrifice and being insulted. There is a famous quote by Gloria Steinem, “The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”

In the early stage of every relationship, it is normal that people get to know each other, but with time things get changed drastically. The Comfort zone between two people turned into selfishness. The reason behind rude behaviour involves different aspects.

But whatever the reasons are, it takes away a huge part of your life and affects you emotionally.

When you are in a pure relationship based upon honesty and royalty, there are little things that affect you badly. Even it affects your mental health.

There is a stage in a relationship where you say, “We can’t live without each other,” then there comes the point you thought, “How to get away from this toxic relationship?”

Messy eyes and smiling lips telling another drastic story. Life is a roller coaster of memories and experiences.

Five main reasons for a relationship that piss you off:

Number 1: We need to talk

 Lack of communication between a couple can take the relationship into the worst stage. It is like you are standing in the middle of juggle and do not know which way will take you home. A little misunderstanding can break your heart. Building up extra drama and suspense will only make your relationship toxic.

Number 2: Whatever

It is about the night that you sleep with a heavy heart without clearing your misunderstanding. Have you though what type of insecurities you both are struggling, instead of clearing the things you end up your conservation with the words “Whatever.”

Whatever? Matlab kya hai iska? Mujhe jawab chayie…instead of looking for the solutions, your rigid behaviour makes things worse. Yes, that is the movement that pisses you off badly. Rishte banana asaan hai but torna buhat Mushkil.

Number 3: You will never understand me

Oh really? You really what exactly you are saying? Tumhe mera ahsas hi nahi hai, kabhi sumjh nahi sakte tum. You never realize how your parents rudely talk to me. Such things badly affect a pure relationship. It is important to take every person in a particular place with respect. Always remember one thing, “Rishte ahsas ke hotain hain”

Number 4: My scatter dreams, my emotions

Mene zindagi mein buhat kuch socha tha, but after you, in my life, everything is just messed up. There is a point in a relationship when you tried to explain things and start blaming each other. You make fun of insecurities instead of consoling. Such loneliness makes you feel wickedest. 

Number 5: You do not have enough time for me

At the start, you give more time to each other, but with each passing day, you step back, or priorities may change. When you spent more time with your friends and have time to listen to your partner. Or yaha se sub problem start hojati hain.

Hadiqa Khursheed Team Versuasions Pakistan