There are things people do in relationships that can never be forgiven. You might think I’m referring to cheating or something along those lines, but the issue goes much deeper than that. There are things far more awful that a woman can never, EVER forgive her man for doing.

Physical Abuse

Abuse is never to be tolerated, and it’s not wrong to be unforgiving. When it comes to your SO, if there was any physical violence, it’s hard to overcome that and still have a loving, comfortable relationship. Adults know the difference between right and wrong, children are still learning. As adults we must be a role model. Abuse inflicts trauma and/or teaches abuse, and that is not forgivable.

Cheating with no remorse

While some people might be more willing to understand and mend the relationship, other times cheating is unforgivable, and that’s totally valid, as it shows a level of disrespect — especially if the person doesn’t seem to feel very bad about it.

Constant Lying

This can tie into cheating, but also just lying in general. If your partner keeps lying to you, he or she can’t be trusted, and it’s a level of disrespect and shadiness that might not be forgiven in a relationship. Discuss it with your partner, and if he or she keeps lying and can’t change, it’s time to call it quits.

Emotional Abuse

Most relationship failures, romantic or not, are the result of low emotional intelligence, and this can come out in the form of intense emotional reactions and hostility during arguments. Particularly one’s inability to control triggers and emotional escalation, becomes the ‘acid rain’ that erodes the relationship.

Not Taking Responsibility

What makes this a non-forgiving attribute to some could be its high probability for repeated behaviors and patterns. One thing that I think would qualify someone as ‘unforgiveable’ and undeserving of a second chance is if they fail to take responsibility or show remorse for what they’ve done wrong or defer the blame for it.

Team Versuasion Pakistan – Fareeha Robert