You’ve gone through relationships where you knew the other person wasn’t good for you but every so often, you’ll leave someone and realize you’ve made a terrible mistake, Or your ex left you, but you’re certain you still have a chance to have a great life together.

While there are no guarantees that your ex will come back into your life with open arms, there are some things you can do to entice them back into a relationship (given that they are not a toxic person and are capable of a mutual, non-toxic relationship). Breakups of any kind are devastating. I write a lot about breakups with toxic individuals, but what if you were with someone who was truly great?

The following ways you can adapt to win your ex back ? Now this will get interesting for a few ?.

Give them time and space!

But if you want to win your ex back, you must give them time and space. Calling them non-stop, begging for them back, crying on the phone, and all the things we do when we’re hurt are a big turn off. It’s even more of a turn off if your ex dumped you. They clearly want space from your relationship. Texting and calling constantly isn’t a good idea.

Apply the No Contact Rule

This one can be painful, especially if you and your ex were in a long-term relationship. It’s hard to stop talking to someone who’s been there for you for months or even years but is now no longer a part of your life. You may have been relying on them for emotional support for a long time, and going cold turkey is difficult.

Spend more time with friends and family!

There was a time before you and your ex knew each other. Unless you’ve been dating the same person since middle school, you likely had a network of friends and family that you hung out with often. Now is the time to rebuild these relationships and refocus on them. This way, you can start getting your identity back as the person you were before you met your ex. Strengthening these bonds can both help heal you from your relationship and can help boost your self-confidence. Most people’s self-esteem gets drained after a break-up, and that’s normal. This can help you build back up.

Make New Hobbies

I worked out hard every day. I spent whatever free time I had planning more thoughtful meals. Whenever I did have free time, I found that I didn’t obsess as badly as I usually did because I was expending my energy in other areas too. (in other words, when I had free time, I was too exhausted to care as much). No matter what, make sure you take some time to focus on yourself.

Evaluate the relationship issues!

Take the time to figure out if your relationship issues are truly fixable and if your core values match.

Versuasion Pakistan – Fareeha Robert