Being in love is supposed to be a positive thing. You can enjoy spending time with someone who you really care about and start working toward building a future together. What if you care about two people in the exact same way? Is it possible to be in love with two people? Whether it’s possible or not, this has the potential to be disastrous.

The Nasty Love Triangle

When you’re involved in a love triangle, it has the potential to get really messy. You don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings by cheating on them or spurning their advances in favor of someone else. It’s definitely possible to have strong feelings for multiple people. In fact, there’s nothing unusual about being attracted to more than one person or wanting to act on that attraction. Depending on what type of relationship you’re in, this just might not be possible. Most people in western cultures practice normal monogamous relationships. This means that you’re supposed to be loyal to one person and show them all of your love/affection. If you feel like you’re in love with someone else while still in a relationship, this can be problematic. Any type of love triangle situation is going to be tough. Even if you aren’t in a relationship but are merely being courted by two individuals, loving two people will be difficult. You don’t want to break anyone’s heart. Even so, you’re going to have to make a choice to resolve this situation.

Choose Between the Two

If you really do love both people, then you should want both of them to be happy. If you can’t be with both of them, then the person you don’t choose will be able to move on and potentially find someone else. Trying to maintain a relationship with two people is simply going to drive a wedge between you and the others that you’re dating. If you aren’t honest about it, then those lies are going to catch up with you eventually.

Be Honest

Being honest about your feelings is important but you also need to be honest with your partners. If you’re actually dating one of these two people, or both of them, then you need to own up to it. Tell them the truth about the situation that you’re in. It might wind up leading to you losing one or both of these people if you haven’t been honest in the past. Honesty is one of the most crucial parts of maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you need to make a choice between two people, then you need to start thinking with your heart. Do you feel stronger about one person than you do the other? Are your life goals in better alignment with one of your potential partners than they would be with the other one? Think about all of the factors that are involved and then make your final choice.

Take my final advice, stay away from this bullshit situation. It is definitely going to bite you in the a** one day!

Team Versuasion Pakistan – Fareeha Robert