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Isolation Helps Us to Reexamine Our Relationships

Zindagi behad masroof thi jaise watq toh agge bartha jaraha or mein peche rahta jaraha tha. Majboriyan or waqt ki tashlash bus issi dour mein din guzarte jarahe the.

Things that used to attract me has lost its meaning, people I love to sit with are nowhere around or I want to sit lonely, staring blankly on the wall.

After lockdown, in starting things are remarkably attractive then after certain period, things are getting really frustrating. Shadi ke kuch arse baad zindagi ka aik or hi dour shuru hogaya tha jaha paise ki dour zayada thi. Mein waqt or paise ke peche bhag raha tha or apno keliye toh kiya, apne liye be time nhi tha. I didn’t get much time to spend with my better half. 

Corona virus ne zindagi ki aik or hi haqeeqat dekhai, zindagi or mout mein bus aik sans ka fasla hai jo chal rahi to aik or subaha. Warna anderah hi anderah.

Lockdown? Staying Completely at home!

Ahh, a good relief from a hectic routine, now it’s time to make some memories with my family. Things that are badly missing in my life.

Time to make some sweet memories with my partner, khair ye toh bus aik soch thi. Hota kaha hai waisa jaisa insan sochta hai.

In the starting days of lockdown, I had an exciting time with my partner like watching movies, talking on different things, cook together. It feels like we are creating everything from a fresh start. Life seems more colorful and peaceful.

But then everything changes, Arguments, and disagreements.

Aisa kyun hogaya, waisa kyun nhi horaha.

Mera Ye mtlb toh nhi tha.

Tum kabhi nhi mujhe sumjho ge and list is long.

We tend to argue on common issues even we had never before lockdown—pretty trivial things.  

Our common reason for making arguments are kids, money, domestic affairs. Since it’s the lockdown and we have no way to make money. We overthink this and sometimes started blaming each other. 

It may sound funny, but we fight for such reasons too:

  • Daal Vs. Curry
  • Hollywood VS Bollywood
  • Whose family is more idiotic, wife’s or husband’s.

Another reason, Relatives -In-laws:

Sometimes too much interference makes life hell and severely disturbs private martial space. This is because parents belong to the old generation, and they don’t try to understand the new concepts or new aspects of life. Ab yaha aik dusre ko sumjhte or behand ulalj jate hain.

Past Issues and Conflicts add more spice!

Jab kuch nhi yaad ata toh purani qisse or kahaniyaan yaad ajati hain, phir aik new masla start. Waha tumhari galti thi… tumne mera sath tabh kyun nhi diya tha.

What have I learned during Isolation?

In this isolation period mein, I have learned that zindagi assan nhi hai isko asan banana parta hai. I have a pure relationship with my partner. Hum aik sath larte but khana be aik sath hi khatain hain. The trials and tests of this life will never end. There are some issues at which I need to accept and equally understand my partner’s feelings.

Life is all about acceptance, nothing is perfect, and nothing can be perfect. It’s is okay to make arguments, but it is not okay to sleep with hateful feelings.

 Communicate, and everything will fall into its right place. I firmly believe this. 

Hadiqa Khursheed – Team Versuasions Pakistan

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